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If She Tries To Reach Out To You…

If She Tries To Reach Out To You… If your ex reaches out to you during this No Contact period—whether it’s with a text message, a call, or a message on Facebook—you may respond. You don’t want to be rude. The key is to keep your response upbeat, positive and brief. (“I’m doing really great, going skiing this weekend with…

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The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem

The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem Now let’s dig deeper and think about some of the other reasons why things went wrong with your ex. At first glance, this may seem pretty simple, especially if you were given explicit reasons as to why your girlfriend didn’t want to continue the relationship. However, there is almost always more to it than meets the eye….

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Contain Your Emotions 2

In the same way, hoping to make your emotions just “go away” is unrealistic. Lots of people try to do that, but it can literally make them go insane. That’s right; repressing your feelings for a long time makes you crazy. And craziness is hardly a quality that will cause your ex to come running back into your arms. I’m…

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You Live Together

Let’s discuss these in order. Later on, we’ll talk about some of these exceptions in more detail, but for now we want you to know exactly what type of contact (if any) would be advisable for your situation. Exception 1: You Live Together Of the situations described above, living together makes things the most difficult. Perhaps you were previously roommates…

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An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma

An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma “Be the island, not the waves. The Alpha Man provides a safe haven for the women in his life. Be a protector: demonstrate the ability to be a source of physical and emotional security. Women are attracted to stable, secure men and are repelled by neediness and insecurity….

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She Wants an Upgrade

She Wants an Upgrade Throughout all of this, it’s important to remember that she doesn’t want the “old” you back. After all, she broke up with the old you, right? Clearly, something about the old you was not doing it for her anymore, whether it was because you were butting heads and arguing too much, or she grew to hate…

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Ex Back Experts – How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

(The following is an excerpt from the Ex Back Experts manual.) There are a lot of books out there that will coddle you when you’re feeling down. There are a lot of books that will tell you that you need to simply accept the negative things that happen in your life. And there are also plenty of books that will…

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The Negative Emotion Neutralizer

The Negative Emotion Neutralizer This is the core method of the Ex Back Experts system. Used correctly, you can use this powerful method to virtually wipe out the negative feelings your ex has towards you, and replace them with positive emotions whenever she thinks of you (or to just make her flat-out miss you). Rather than associating you with character…

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Socialize & EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE

STEP TWO: Socialize & EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE Right now, the prospect of spending 30 days without having any communication with your ex might seem daunting. A little bit scary, even. And even if you’re exercising every day and spending time on other positive activities, that still leaves a lot of hours to fill in the evenings, or on the…

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Getting Back With Your Ex-Girlfriend The Easy Way

Tales From the Front Lines: The Relationship Counselor I knew a guy who I’ll call Zach. When his long-term girlfriend Sara broke up with him, he handled it pretty well. He wanted to reconcile with her, but he instinctively knew that he should give her space, and time to start missing him and change her mind. His plan worked—to an…

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