Tag: how to get your ex back

Tales From the Front Lines: The Clone

Tales From the Front Lines: The Clone A high school friend of mine, who we’ll call Jeff, dated Samantha through two years of high school and the first two years of college. However, as she got closer to the end of her college career and started thinking about her future, she decided that she wanted more than what Jeff was…

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Tales From the Front Lines: The Cuddle Buddy

Tales From the Front Lines: The Cuddle Buddy One of the most cringe-inducing stories I’ve ever heard was about a friend-of-a-friend, who we’ll call James. James was completely devastated due to a recent breakup with his girlfriend, Amy. James was convinced that Amy was his only shot at real love, and that he had to get her back at all…

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How To Contact Your Ex-Girlfriend

How To Contact Her I recommend two methods of resuming contact with her: through Facebook, or texting her on your phone. (I realize there are other “social” sites besides Facebook, but let’s face it, Facebook is the site everyone uses these days.) These two methods allow you to “gauge the temperature” and feel her out. You can contact her in…

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The “No Contact” Period 2

I realize that 30 days might seem like an awfully long time from where you’re sitting right now. So here’s what you’ll need to do: Take things that remind you of your ex (pictures, gifts, etc.) and put them somewhere where you won’t see them. I suggest storing them at a friend’s place, or somewhere besides your home. This is…

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Consider The Following Conversation

Consider the following conversation: LISA: “I just heard my uncle is in the hospital. It sounds like he’s really sick.” JOHN: “I’m sorry to hear about that, honey. How’s your aunt handling it? You should call her.” LISA: “Didn’t you hear me? I just said he was sick. It’s got nothing to do with her. My God, he could die…

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You Live Together

Let’s discuss these in order. Later on, we’ll talk about some of these exceptions in more detail, but for now we want you to know exactly what type of contact (if any) would be advisable for your situation. Exception 1: You Live Together Of the situations described above, living together makes things the most difficult. Perhaps you were previously roommates…

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Want To Get Your Ex Back? Don’t Make These Deadly Mistakes…

What You Absolutely Must NOT Do… While this has already been mentioned, it’s so important—and such a common pitfall—that it deserves its own section: If you want to win your ex back, you must not “be friends” with her. Just because the No Contact phase has ended, and she has decided to meet with you, it doesn’t mean that you…

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Step 1: Identify The Core Reasons

Step 1: Identify The Core Reasons There are two questions you need to answer (be brutally honest with yourself): what was the key reason why she broke up with you, and what was the key reason why she fell in love with you in the first place? Understanding the answers to these questions will help you to implement the Negative…

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The “No Contact Rule” After The Break Up

The “No Contact” Period Hopefully I’ve sufficiently convinced you that even though it isn’t easy, you must maintain a distance from your ex-girlfriend for the time being. Remember, even though your girlfriend broke up with you, she is used to getting your attention. She craves it, even. You may be saying to yourself, “If she craves my attention, why did…

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The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem

The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem Now let’s dig deeper and think about some of the other reasons why things went wrong with your ex. At first glance, this may seem pretty simple, especially if you were given explicit reasons as to why your girlfriend didn’t want to continue the relationship. However, there is almost always more to it than meets the eye….

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