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The Long Distance Relationship

Possible Exception 1- The Long Distance Relationship If the two of you were in a long distance relationship, the No Contact rule is slightly different because she isn’t going to see you around. She won’t run into you and see how well (or badly) you are doing. Furthermore, when the No Contact period is over, you will not be able…

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Meeting Up

Meeting Up OK, so assuming you’re not in a long-distance relationship, arranging this “casual meetup” shouldn’t be too hard at this point. You can meet at a coffee shop, have a light dinner, or anything else that you’ll both feel comfortable with. Just remember: you pick the place and time. Why is this important? Because this is how you’re going…

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The Negative Emotion Neutralizer

The Negative Emotion Neutralizer This is the core method of the Ex Back Experts system. Used correctly, you can use this powerful method to virtually wipe out the negative feelings your ex has towards you, and replace them with positive emotions whenever she thinks of you (or to just make her flat-out miss you). Rather than associating you with character…

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An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma

An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma “Be the island, not the waves. The Alpha Man provides a safe haven for the women in his life. Be a protector: demonstrate the ability to be a source of physical and emotional security. Women are attracted to stable, secure men and are repelled by neediness and insecurity….

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Want To Get Your Ex Back? Don’t Make These Deadly Mistakes…

What You Absolutely Must NOT Do… While this has already been mentioned, it’s so important—and such a common pitfall—that it deserves its own section: If you want to win your ex back, you must not “be friends” with her. Just because the No Contact phase has ended, and she has decided to meet with you, it doesn’t mean that you…

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She Wants an Upgrade

She Wants an Upgrade Throughout all of this, it’s important to remember that she doesn’t want the “old” you back. After all, she broke up with the old you, right? Clearly, something about the old you was not doing it for her anymore, whether it was because you were butting heads and arguing too much, or she grew to hate…

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Getting Back With Your Ex-Girlfriend The Easy Way

Tales From the Front Lines: The Relationship Counselor I knew a guy who I’ll call Zach. When his long-term girlfriend Sara broke up with him, he handled it pretty well. He wanted to reconcile with her, but he instinctively knew that he should give her space, and time to start missing him and change her mind. His plan worked—to an…

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The “No Contact Rule” After The Break Up

The “No Contact” Period Hopefully I’ve sufficiently convinced you that even though it isn’t easy, you must maintain a distance from your ex-girlfriend for the time being. Remember, even though your girlfriend broke up with you, she is used to getting your attention. She craves it, even. You may be saying to yourself, “If she craves my attention, why did…

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Consider The Following Conversation

Consider the following conversation: LISA: “I just heard my uncle is in the hospital. It sounds like he’s really sick.” JOHN: “I’m sorry to hear about that, honey. How’s your aunt handling it? You should call her.” LISA: “Didn’t you hear me? I just said he was sick. It’s got nothing to do with her. My God, he could die…

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You Live Together

Let’s discuss these in order. Later on, we’ll talk about some of these exceptions in more detail, but for now we want you to know exactly what type of contact (if any) would be advisable for your situation. Exception 1: You Live Together Of the situations described above, living together makes things the most difficult. Perhaps you were previously roommates…

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