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An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma

Sign Up & Learn The 4 DEADLIEST Pickup Lines You Can Use To Get Girls! (Free Video)Join The Internet’s #1 Newsletter For Free Dating Tips (Spots Are Limited!)   An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma “Be the island, not the waves. The Alpha Man provides a safe haven for the women in his life….

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Tales From the Front Lines: The Cuddle Buddy

Tales From the Front Lines: The Cuddle Buddy One of the most cringe-inducing stories I’ve ever heard was about a friend-of-a-friend, who we’ll call James. James was completely devastated due to a recent breakup with his girlfriend, Amy. James was convinced that Amy was his only shot at real love, and that he had to get her back at all…

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A Little Help From Your Friends

A Little Help From Your Friends You may have heard from others that it’s best to work through the pain of a breakup alone. In reality, that is very far from the truth. While you obviously do not want to rely on your ex to help you get through the breakup, you will definitely benefit from some sort of support…

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Becoming “The New You,” Version 2.0

Becoming “The New You,” Version 2.0 In the software world, when a program is improved in some way, it becomes a different version. The original version is version 1.0. Changes and improvements result in version 1.1, 1.2, and so forth. A radically different, much-improved version results in a whole new number, such as version 2.0, 3.0, and so on. You…

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You Live Together

Let’s discuss these in order. Later on, we’ll talk about some of these exceptions in more detail, but for now we want you to know exactly what type of contact (if any) would be advisable for your situation. Exception 1: You Live Together Of the situations described above, living together makes things the most difficult. Perhaps you were previously roommates…

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The “No Contact Rule” After The Break Up

The “No Contact” Period Hopefully I’ve sufficiently convinced you that even though it isn’t easy, you must maintain a distance from your ex-girlfriend for the time being. Remember, even though your girlfriend broke up with you, she is used to getting your attention. She craves it, even. You may be saying to yourself, “If she craves my attention, why did…

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Socialize & EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE

STEP TWO: Socialize & EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE Right now, the prospect of spending 30 days without having any communication with your ex might seem daunting. A little bit scary, even. And even if you’re exercising every day and spending time on other positive activities, that still leaves a lot of hours to fill in the evenings, or on the…

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Push and Pull Theory

Push and Pull Theory There is an important, simple theory that explains why you need to stay away from your ex-girlfriend for a while. It’s called the “push and pull theory” and it makes a lot of sense. Understanding this will help you to not only get your girlfriend back, but also perhaps gain some insight into the reasons you…

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Learning to Stay Away

Learning to Stay Away This step is the most difficult for most guys to get the hang of. When you suddenly get dumped, there are a lot of things you want to do. You want to get answers. You want to talk it out. You want to see your girlfriend again. You want to fix everything as fast as you…

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Tales From the Front Lines: Winning At Tug of War

Tales From the Front Lines: Winning At Tug of War A reader who we worked with not long ago, who we’ll call Scott, told me all about his breakup with his girlfriend of just over a year, Amanda. Scott had done just about everything wrong after the breakup. He had always been the one who “wore the pants” in the…

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