Sign Up & Learn The 4 DEADLIEST Pickup Lines You Can Use To Get Girls! (Free Video)Join The Internet’s #1 Newsletter For Free Dating Tips (Spots Are Limited!) Patching the Leaks I find that analogies are often the best way to help guys (including myself) understand how to work on relationships. Here’s a good one for understanding how we…
Read More »An Excerpt from “The Alpha Rules” by Dean Cortez & Carlos Xuma “Be the island, not the waves. The Alpha Man provides a safe haven for the women in his life. Be a protector: demonstrate the ability to be a source of physical and emotional security. Women are attracted to stable, secure men and are repelled by neediness and insecurity….
Read More »Meeting Up OK, so assuming you’re not in a long-distance relationship, arranging this “casual meetup” shouldn’t be too hard at this point. You can meet at a coffee shop, have a light dinner, or anything else that you’ll both feel comfortable with. Just remember: you pick the place and time. Why is this important? Because this is how you’re going…
Read More »Tales From the Front Lines: The Cuddle Buddy One of the most cringe-inducing stories I’ve ever heard was about a friend-of-a-friend, who we’ll call James. James was completely devastated due to a recent breakup with his girlfriend, Amy. James was convinced that Amy was his only shot at real love, and that he had to get her back at all…
Read More »Possible Exception 1- The Long Distance Relationship If the two of you were in a long distance relationship, the No Contact rule is slightly different because she isn’t going to see you around. She won’t run into you and see how well (or badly) you are doing. Furthermore, when the No Contact period is over, you will not be able…
Read More »A Little Help From Your Friends You may have heard from others that it’s best to work through the pain of a breakup alone. In reality, that is very far from the truth. While you obviously do not want to rely on your ex to help you get through the breakup, you will definitely benefit from some sort of support…
Read More »Becoming “The New You,” Version 2.0 In the software world, when a program is improved in some way, it becomes a different version. The original version is version 1.0. Changes and improvements result in version 1.1, 1.2, and so forth. A radically different, much-improved version results in a whole new number, such as version 2.0, 3.0, and so on. You…
Read More »Let’s discuss these in order. Later on, we’ll talk about some of these exceptions in more detail, but for now we want you to know exactly what type of contact (if any) would be advisable for your situation. Exception 1: You Live Together Of the situations described above, living together makes things the most difficult. Perhaps you were previously roommates…
Read More »I’m aware that there are many little hurdles or speed bumps that can emerge at this point, so it’s important that we address some of the most common ones. If you don’t feel that the previous sections addressed your situation, your problem will hopefully be covered here. If not, just remember to address every situation with confidence and let her…
Read More »Exception 5: The Short-Term Relationship This is the most important of the exceptions, because in this situation, having an extended No Contact period with her can kill your chances of getting her back. This is because you have not spent the time together that is really required for her to depend on your affection, attention, and presence in her life….
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