Question and Answer #10


You and The Negotiator have changed my life. I feel like I know so much more about women than before, and it has been awesome. There’s one thing that is always similar about women though, even when you have M.A.C.K. Tactics on your side: they are always more interested when you’re already with somebody.

Why is it that women suddenly want you even more when you’re in a relationship? Do you act differently? Can they just sense it? What’s the deal?

Keep it up! Barry”

Dean Cortez’s Answer


It does seem that way, doesn’t it? Here’s the thing- when you’re in a relationship, it tells women that you are WANTED. Women want things that other women want. They read books that other women are talking about, they buy clothes that they see other women wearing, and so on. When you’re with a woman, they want to see what the fuss is all about. Women say they aren’t competitive, but you can tell they are with how they act around men who are taken.

Also, don’t forget that YOU may be different when you are in a relationship, even if you don’t realize it.

Most guys subconsciously exert more confidence when they are with someone, which women are very attracted to.

Finally, don’t forget that women want what they can’t have. When you are with someone, you aren’t chasing women (most likely!) and women are more attracted when you don’t show too much interest. You come off relaxed, confident, and not all that interested- which drives them crazy.