(The following is an excerpt from the Ex Back Experts manual.)
There are a lot of books out there that will coddle you when you’re feeling down. There are a lot of books that will tell you that you need to simply accept the negative things that happen in your life. And there are also plenty of books that will tell you that you have to trust in fate (or some other invisible force) to fix your life and get you back to where you want to be.
This is not one of those books.
There are hard realities in life. Bad things happen. When they occur, you must trust yourself- and only yourself- to do what needs to be done to fix the problem. It can be comforting to believe that things are just going to fix themselves, or that somehow whatever happens will be “what is meant to be,” but that’s not the kind of thinking that gets anything done.
If you think that way, you won’t get the things that you want in life. Period.
When something doesn’t go your way—specifically, when the woman you love decides, for whatever reason, that she doesn’t want to be with you any longer—no magical fairy is going to bring her back. No amount of “positive thinking” is going to make anything happen unless it’s backed up with actions on your part. It’s up to you to take control and change the situation.
That’s not all, either. Merely “being a man” and taking action will not do you any good if you aren’t taking the right actions. Many men have lost women forever because they made a bad situation worse—making bone-headed moves after a breakup that actually had the opposite effect that they desired.
In short, they pushed their exes even further away.
There is a technique to everything, and winning your ex back is no exception. We say “winning” because make no mistake: you are competing here. You are competing against the new guy, you are competing against the life she lives without you, you are even competing against your old self that she felt wasn’t good enough for her. This is a competition, and you must approach it as such.
Since we know that simply giving a big effort is not enough, and that your effort has to be focused on the right techniques and the right strategies, it’s a good thing you’ve decided to read this guide. Within these pages are all of the secrets that you need to know to not only win your ex back, but also to keep her for good and ensure that you never end up in this situation again.