Category: How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Do you miss your ex girlfriend and want her back? Use this method to get your ex back.

The Short-Term Relationship

Exception 5: The Short-Term Relationship This is the most important of the exceptions, because in this situation, having an extended No Contact period with her can kill your chances of getting her back. This is because you have not spent the time together that is really required for her to depend on your affection, attention, and presence in her life….

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Consider The Following Conversation

Consider the following conversation: LISA: “I just heard my uncle is in the hospital. It sounds like he’s really sick.” JOHN: “I’m sorry to hear about that, honey. How’s your aunt handling it? You should call her.” LISA: “Didn’t you hear me? I just said he was sick. It’s got nothing to do with her. My God, he could die…

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The “No Contact Rule” After The Break Up

The “No Contact” Period Hopefully I’ve sufficiently convinced you that even though it isn’t easy, you must maintain a distance from your ex-girlfriend for the time being. Remember, even though your girlfriend broke up with you, she is used to getting your attention. She craves it, even. You may be saying to yourself, “If she craves my attention, why did…

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If She Tries To Reach Out To You…

If She Tries To Reach Out To You… If your ex reaches out to you during this No Contact period—whether it’s with a text message, a call, or a message on Facebook—you may respond. You don’t want to be rude. The key is to keep your response upbeat, positive and brief. (“I’m doing really great, going skiing this weekend with…

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The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem

The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem Now let’s dig deeper and think about some of the other reasons why things went wrong with your ex. At first glance, this may seem pretty simple, especially if you were given explicit reasons as to why your girlfriend didn’t want to continue the relationship. However, there is almost always more to it than meets the eye….

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Handling The Breakup

How To Handle Breakups The unthinkable has happened. A girl that previously was crazy about you has decided to move on. You’ve likely been blindsided, because who really sees these things coming? You probably will, however, realize later that the signs were fairly clear all along. For now though, let’s not worry about that. You’ll be going through a lot…

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Patching the Leaks

Patching the Leaks I find that analogies are often the best way to help guys (including myself) understand how to work on relationships. Here’s a good one for understanding how we can really fix what went wrong, or at least ensure that it doesn’t go wrong again. Let’s say you’re on an island with your girlfriend. The island is your…

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Phase Three: Challenge Her & Use Push-Pull

Phase Three: Challenge Her & Use Push-Pull You MUST shift gears and go to this next step. Phase Two is a comfortable place to be…bonding, sharing, talking about cool stuff you’ve got in common. But in order to make her feel attraction, you need to demonstrate that you’re a high-value guy who isn’t sure if she’s up to your standards….

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Contain Your Emotions 2

In the same way, hoping to make your emotions just “go away” is unrealistic. Lots of people try to do that, but it can literally make them go insane. That’s right; repressing your feelings for a long time makes you crazy. And craziness is hardly a quality that will cause your ex to come running back into your arms. I’m…

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You Live Together

Let’s discuss these in order. Later on, we’ll talk about some of these exceptions in more detail, but for now we want you to know exactly what type of contact (if any) would be advisable for your situation. Exception 1: You Live Together Of the situations described above, living together makes things the most difficult. Perhaps you were previously roommates…

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