Do you miss your ex girlfriend and want her back? Use this method to get your ex back.
Phase Four: Escalate & Close Again, the main purpose of learning and using these tactics is for you to develop your confidence around women in general (and to get out there and have some fun). If you’re not interested in sleeping with new women because your main priority is to get your ex back, that’s fine. I will remind you,…
Read More »Women are NOT attracted to the following qualities: Neediness Nothing is less attractive to a girl (or a guy, if think about it) than someone who is constantly wanting to be at your side, not winning your respect but instead your pity because they seemingly have nothing else to do but hang on you. Think in terms of supply and…
Read More »Possible Exception 1- The Long Distance Relationship If the two of you were in a long distance relationship, the No Contact rule is slightly different because she isn’t going to see you around. She won’t run into you and see how well (or badly) you are doing. Furthermore, when the No Contact period is over, you will not be able…
Read More »Meeting Up OK, so assuming you’re not in a long-distance relationship, arranging this “casual meetup” shouldn’t be too hard at this point. You can meet at a coffee shop, have a light dinner, or anything else that you’ll both feel comfortable with. Just remember: you pick the place and time. Why is this important? Because this is how you’re going…
Read More »Contain Your Emotions Though emotions like anger and sadness are very different, and have very different effects, they all have one important thing in common: they make you do stupid things. If you give in to your anger, you will do something dumb. If you give in to your sadness, you will do something dumb. It’s just a fact of…
Read More »If you’ve done everything that I instructed you to do up to this point, you should be buzzing with a level of confidence you haven’t felt in a while. The really hard work is done. If you’ve made it through the No Contact period and you’re feeling good about yourself, you’re in a strong position to win her back. Just…
Read More »Exception 2: You Work or Go to School Together In these situations, your amount of contact could vary wildly, based upon the circumstances. If you work or go to school together, but only see each other in passing, then it’s not a big deal. You can say “hi” if you walk by her, but otherwise you need to refrain from…
Read More »What You Absolutely Must NOT Do… While this has already been mentioned, it’s so important—and such a common pitfall—that it deserves its own section: If you want to win your ex back, you must not “be friends” with her. Just because the No Contact phase has ended, and she has decided to meet with you, it doesn’t mean that you…
Read More »Hooks & Ladders The key to never running out of conversational material is understanding how to use “hooks.” A “hook” is anything a girl mentions that you can turn into a topic of conversation—right now, or later on. A “ladder” is an opportunity in the conversation for you to plant a positive seed in her mind and boost yourself…
Read More »In college, we had large, extended groups of friends we knew through sports and other activities. Some of these friends actually helped us learn a lot about relationships, mostly because we were able to observe their blunders and mishaps firsthand. One such person was a guy we’ll call Adam (for future reference, all names will be changed in the stories…
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