Do you miss your ex girlfriend and want her back? Use this method to get your ex back.
The Post-Relationship Post-Mortem Now let’s dig deeper and think about some of the other reasons why things went wrong with your ex. At first glance, this may seem pretty simple, especially if you were given explicit reasons as to why your girlfriend didn’t want to continue the relationship. However, there is almost always more to it than meets the eye….
Read More »While most guys who are worried about losing face with their friends might not want to admit it, there is an even more powerful feeling than the anger you are experiencing, and that is the sadness that comes with it. While anger gives you energy (although it is negative energy, of course), sadness is simply a debilitating feeling. When you…
Read More »Possible Exception 1- The Long Distance Relationship If the two of you were in a long distance relationship, the No Contact rule is slightly different because she isn’t going to see you around. She won’t run into you and see how well (or badly) you are doing. Furthermore, when the No Contact period is over, you will not be able…
Read More »A Little Help From Your Friends You may have heard from others that it’s best to work through the pain of a breakup alone. In reality, that is very far from the truth. While you obviously do not want to rely on your ex to help you get through the breakup, you will definitely benefit from some sort of support…
Read More »Exception 2: You Work or Go to School Together In these situations, your amount of contact could vary wildly, based upon the circumstances. If you work or go to school together, but only see each other in passing, then it’s not a big deal. You can say “hi” if you walk by her, but otherwise you need to refrain from…
Read More »Step 1: Identify The Core Reasons There are two questions you need to answer (be brutally honest with yourself): what was the key reason why she broke up with you, and what was the key reason why she fell in love with you in the first place? Understanding the answers to these questions will help you to implement the Negative…
Read More »Tales From the Front Lines: The Relationship Counselor I knew a guy who I’ll call Zach. When his long-term girlfriend Sara broke up with him, he handled it pretty well. He wanted to reconcile with her, but he instinctively knew that he should give her space, and time to start missing him and change her mind. His plan worked—to an…
Read More »Phase Two: Build the Bond Spend some time getting to know about her and share a few interesting details about yourself (your talents, ambitions, passions). To get her to share, use statements, stories and guesses instead of asking her questions. Be unpredictable, unlike all the other guys who go into “interview mode” with her. Here are some examples. Predictable: “So…
Read More »In college, we had large, extended groups of friends we knew through sports and other activities. Some of these friends actually helped us learn a lot about relationships, mostly because we were able to observe their blunders and mishaps firsthand. One such person was a guy we’ll call Adam (for future reference, all names will be changed in the stories…
Read More »Hooks & Ladders The key to never running out of conversational material is understanding how to use “hooks.” A “hook” is anything a girl mentions that you can turn into a topic of conversation—right now, or later on. A “ladder” is an opportunity in the conversation for you to plant a positive seed in her mind and boost yourself…
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