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Rules Of Approaching Women

Rules Of Approaching Women   There are only two possible outcomes: she’s going to be fun, or boring. I got this simple but ingenious piece of advice from my friend Jon Sinn, the famed pickup artist. Don’t think in terms of her accepting you or rejecting you. Tell yourself that she’s either going to be a fun person to get…

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Question and Answer #24

“Dean, I feel like my standards are too high. The thing is, I’m honest with myself and I’m not really a great looking guy- I’m just “okay”. That’s fine, I’m not self-conscious about it, but I DO think it is limiting my chances with women. See, since I have high standards, I’m not willing to bother with women that are verweight, plain looking, or just don’t…

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Tales From the Front Lines: How Adam Lost His Cool (And His Girlfriend)

In college, we had large, extended groups of friends we knew through sports and other activities. Some of these friends actually helped us learn a lot about relationships, mostly because we were able to observe their blunders and mishaps firsthand. One such person was a guy we’ll call Adam (for future reference, all names will be changed in the stories…

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Contain Your Emotions 2

In the same way, hoping to make your emotions just “go away” is unrealistic. Lots of people try to do that, but it can literally make them go insane. That’s right; repressing your feelings for a long time makes you crazy. And craziness is hardly a quality that will cause your ex to come running back into your arms. I’m…

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How to Get a Girl’s Attention

You can find an enormous amount of advice on the internet on how to get girls, and almost all of it is entirely erroneous. It is wrong because it makes the assumption that women are medals to be won. It is wrong because it treats women like idiots. In reality, most men would do far better in their quest to…

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Want To Get Your Ex Back? Don’t Make These Deadly Mistakes…

What You Absolutely Must NOT Do… While this has already been mentioned, it’s so important—and such a common pitfall—that it deserves its own section: If you want to win your ex back, you must not “be friends” with her. Just because the No Contact phase has ended, and she has decided to meet with you, it doesn’t mean that you…

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What Women Want

What Women Want Earlier, we talked at length about the qualities that women are wired to look for in a man. Now we’ll look at those qualities in terms of how you can incorporate them into your strategy to win back your ex. Specifically, let’s see what you can be doing during your no-contact period to project the qualities that…

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Exception 2: You Work or Go to School Together

Exception 2: You Work or Go to School Together In these situations, your amount of contact could vary wildly, based upon the circumstances. If you work or go to school together, but only see each other in passing, then it’s not a big deal. You can say “hi” if you walk by her, but otherwise you need to refrain from…

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