Meeting Up OK, so assuming you’re not in a long-distance relationship, arranging this “casual meetup” shouldn’t be too hard at this point. You can meet at a coffee shop, have a light dinner, or anything else that you’ll both feel comfortable with. Just remember: you pick the place and time. Why is this important? Because this is how you’re going…
Read More »Consider the following conversation: LISA: “I just heard my uncle is in the hospital. It sounds like he’s really sick.” JOHN: “I’m sorry to hear about that, honey. How’s your aunt handling it? You should call her.” LISA: “Didn’t you hear me? I just said he was sick. It’s got nothing to do with her. My God, he could die…
Read More »Patching the Leaks I find that analogies are often the best way to help guys (including myself) understand how to work on relationships. Here’s a good one for understanding how we can really fix what went wrong, or at least ensure that it doesn’t go wrong again. Let’s say you’re on an island with your girlfriend. The island is your…
Read More »Phase Three: Challenge Her & Use Push-Pull You MUST shift gears and go to this next step. Phase Two is a comfortable place to be…bonding, sharing, talking about cool stuff you’ve got in common. But in order to make her feel attraction, you need to demonstrate that you’re a high-value guy who isn’t sure if she’s up to your standards….
Read More »“Dean Cortez! Hey, I know everybody wants to be with younger women, but I’m the opposite. I love the older ladies. Not senior citizen old, but older than me. The problem is that I’m young-looking as it is and I have a hard time getting older women to give me a chance. I’ve heard it all- “I have a little brother your age” or even “you…
Read More »Push and Pull Theory There is an important, simple theory that explains why you need to stay away from your ex-girlfriend for a while. It’s called the “push and pull theory” and it makes a lot of sense. Understanding this will help you to not only get your girlfriend back, but also perhaps gain some insight into the reasons you…
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Whether you’re single, dating, living with your love or married, any impression of a social life makes staying fit and preserving an exercise routine that much harder. Guiding your body to the gym or trail when your heart wants to globetrot with lovers or friends just isn’t an easy task. I naturally scoff at articles nailing weight gain to relationship…
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