Here is a fact, most folks are too accessible. Think about the things you seek to, good clothes, expensive Italian car perhaps, Tiffany jewelry, Rolex watches, a 100 foot yacht. The fact is the things we most want or wish in life are often the least available. Things are seen to be meaningful because they are uncommon. Rarity is the…
Read More »Dean! Got a question for ya, man! A lot of what I read when it comes to picking up chicks has to do with how to approach girls at bars, get their attention at a club, or whatever. Well, I’m in college, so I have tons of chances to meet chicks. The thing is, I don’t really like bars. How…
Read More »You want to be on top of the heap, the first in line, the cream of the crop. In other words, you want to be an Alpha Male. And so does probably every other guy. But not many of them go beyond, say, Delta, Gamma, or Beta (whoever heard of a Beta male anyway?). Everyone looks up to an Alpha…
Read More »“Hi Dean, I feel like my overall game is pretty good and I have M.A.C.K. Tactics to credit for a lot of that. (OK, most of it, ha ha) Still though, I find myself getting cast into the friend role more than I’d like to. I feel like I’m using innuendos, suggestions, and body contact enough, but maybe I’m not? Is…
Read More »Hooks & Ladders The key to never running out of conversational material is understanding how to use “hooks.” A “hook” is anything a girl mentions that you can turn into a topic of conversation—right now, or later on. A “ladder” is an opportunity in the conversation for you to plant a positive seed in her mind and boost yourself…
Read More »In college, we had large, extended groups of friends we knew through sports and other activities. Some of these friends actually helped us learn a lot about relationships, mostly because we were able to observe their blunders and mishaps firsthand. One such person was a guy we’ll call Adam (for future reference, all names will be changed in the stories…
Read More »Exception 5: The Short-Term Relationship This is the most important of the exceptions, because in this situation, having an extended No Contact period with her can kill your chances of getting her back. This is because you have not spent the time together that is really required for her to depend on your affection, attention, and presence in her life….
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We graduate from college with a degree towards some area of study that we either find interesting or because we simply do it for the money it promises to make. What ends up happening is we get stuck in a crappy job that we at first thought was exciting since the job entails the course of study. Crappy jobs usually…
Read More »Consider the following conversation: LISA: “I just heard my uncle is in the hospital. It sounds like he’s really sick.” JOHN: “I’m sorry to hear about that, honey. How’s your aunt handling it? You should call her.” LISA: “Didn’t you hear me? I just said he was sick. It’s got nothing to do with her. My God, he could die…
Read More »Dean, my question is simple. There’s so much information out there and so little time! I want to get out there and start meeting ladies NOW! My motor’s running and it’s time to get on the road. Simply put, is there a quicker way to get out and start experiencing the dating scene without having to master the whole system…
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